Television
was a fairly grueling career, involving a lot of travel and long hours.
During
that time she divorced and became the sole support for her daughter,
Lisa, now
36. And like so many other careers that
start out in an exciting way, eventually it became “a job.”
To
keep her creative juices going, Michelle took up watercolor painting in
the
1980s, while continuing her make-up work. She met her second husband,
Nicholas
Thomas, a videographer, through the entertainment industry. They have been together for 15 years and
reside in the same Sherman Oaks house where Michelle raised her
daughter.
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Health
crises, her mother’s and that of herself, began her on the road to
polymer
clay. She lost her desire to paint when
her mother became ill with what proved to be terminal cancer. Her
mother died
in 1992.
Michelle’s
watercolor hues always had been “bright and happy” up to this time, not
“dark
and gloomy,” and she no longer could muster up a vivid palette. Then
she was
struck with fibromyalgia within two years of her mother’s death, a
debilitating
disease of overwhelming fatigue and pain which eventually forced her on
permanent disability in 1996.
Michelle
Ross found herself at home “for the first time in 30 years,” feeling
miserable
and useless. Ironically, it was “The
Carol Duvall Show” that came to her rescue. She recalled, “I needed to
be busy
and occupied and creative and to play with colors and textures. I was bored with me being sick.”
“I
didn’t have the equipment for ceramics anymore and it was expensive to
start up
again. Anyway, I physically was not able
to sit down at a potter’s wheel and throw clay.” She became enamored of
rubber
stamping one day while resting in her living room and watching
television. “The
Carol Duvall Show” was on and a guest was working with embossing
powder. “Omigod,
that looks so cool” was her mental reaction.
This
was something she physically could do and she quickly immersed herself
in
it. She designed her own line of stamps
and sold them over a website. She quickly became known to local rubber
stamp
store owners in Los Angeles. She began teaching classes for many of them,
at their requests. One of those stores was patronized by a producer
from “The
Carol Duvall Show” who tapped her as a project creator and demonstrator
during
a hunt for new guest artists for the show.
Michelle
initially had mixed feelings about going on the other side of the
camera for
the first time. “But I was trying to get my rubber stamp business off
the
ground and I would have been stupid not to take the opportunity,” she
said. This course of action fell into a
general
philosophy she has followed most of her life: “I don’t plan my life at
all,
although I might be better off if I did.”
But
thus far, Michelle Ross’ calculated impulsivity seems to have paid off
for her.
Shortly after she began filming for “The Carol Duvall Show,” she met
Donna
Kato, who encouraged her to pursue the endless boundaries of polymer
clay. Her first effort was a polymer clay
project
she completed at home, but she “didn’t feel successful.” After viewing
some of
Karen Lewis’ work at a bead shop, and finding out that KLEW was a Southern California artist, she pursued a
two-day
workshop in polymer clay with Lewis. Michelle’s work as a polymer clay
artist
took off after that, first incorporated with rubber stamping, then as a
separate passion.